Thursday, April 16, 2009

Persons-like me


Existing Situation
 
Needs some attention and must feel she is somewhat important to those around her. Is conceited and is easily offended, but most time wont voice that offense to offender, thinking everyone has their own set opinions. However, is unaware how bitter and resentful it makes her.
 
Stress Sources
 
Unfulfilled hopes have left her feeling uncertain and even a little fearful about the future.  Needs to feel secure and avoid further disappointment; fears she will be looked over, lose her position, or lose respect. 
 
Restrained Characteristics
 
Although she feels isolated and alone, she is afraid of forming deep, meaningful relationships. Thus, the reason why she form them. Feels trapped in a helpless situation and is desperately seeking relief.  She is able to find temperary pleasure and happiness in sexual activity, as long as there is not a lot of conflict or emotional difficulty.
 
Desired 
 
Wants everyone one to be happy and unaware of her own struggles thinking no one needs to feel weighed down by her burdens. Needs to feel reliable for others to cover up for the disappointments done to her. Wishes to be useful in some way that will reach out to people in order to find someone to understands her.
 
Actual Problem
 
Is disappointed and let down, feels there is no point in making new goals as they will leave her feeling the same way.  Is unable to admit to her short comings, which leads her to act out in an aggressive and resentful way.